. Have a Healthy Self-Esteem

    What i mean by a healthy self-esteem is to have a good image of yourself, I'm not talking about a high self-esteem were you see yourself above everyone else but a healthy one. Don't feel less than anybody else, and don't let anyone walk over you. Because this world is not a vertical world, but a horizontal one.

    2. Love your Neighbor

    What good do you do starting fights, looking down at people, or simply having enemies? This might sound like a cliche but the bible couldn't be more right than that, that's almost the key for life. I know we humans and even if we don't want to, we somehow create problems with each other. And sometimes for the most stupid of reasons, but here I am to tell you that we also have the power to avoid those stupid problems we create. So love your neighbor, in a brotherly way, before you insult and do something bad to someone, ask yourself; "would i do this to my brother?"

    3. Live a Real life

    The biggest mistake we can make as human beings is to put limits on our life's, don't get me wrong, it's good to have limits but it's limits that save you from problems. Now I'm talking about the bad limits we put ourselves, those limits that hold us back from all we can be. Those limits we create simply by saying "I'll never loose weight, I'm too fat already." or "I'll never get that job, I'm not qualified enough for it." Those are the limits that ruin our lives, those are those false limits that society puts in front of us to keep us weak and unsuccessful. Those are the limits that weak men and women have created to live easily through this life that they have been given. So don't limit yourself, impossible is not a fact but only an opinion.

    4. Choose were to put your ladder

    Life is full of disappointments, sometimes we depend too much on someone or something, so my tip to you, is choose wisely were to put your ladder. In todays world we cannot afford to trust our financial wall to hold our ladder, because before you know it, that wall will crumble. If we try to stand our ladder in the relationship wall, guess what? That wall will fall sooner or later. Either the girl leaves you, or you two live a happy life until one dies. If you don't believe in God, then I'm not sure what to tell you, but if there is something that will never crumble is God so if i were you, i would give him my ladder.

    5. Give Yourself a Break

    If there anything in this article that you should take with you, well it should be this. Life is tough, we mess up… A lot sometimes i recommend you live as if you already died, like if there is nothing to loose. Because you know what? You could cross the street tomorrow and be killed by a truck. So live, love enjoy the little things, the beauty of life is in the details. Tomorrow morning enjoy your cup of coffee like if it were the last you'll ever have. Hug your husband or wife like if it were the last hug… life is too short for us to take it for granted. So stop whining about having a better life, and start living what you already have.

    1.擁有健康的自尊

    我所說的"健康的自尊"指的是應(yīng)當(dāng)正確認(rèn)識(shí)自己，而不是盲目自負(fù)，認(rèn)為自己凌駕于其他所有人之上。也不要看輕自己，不要被任何人隨意擺布。記住，這個(gè)世界不是垂直的從屬關(guān)系，而是水平的平等關(guān)系。

    2.愛自己的鄰居

    斗毆、目中無人、無謂樹敵，這些做法有什么好處呢？這么說似乎是陳詞濫調(diào)，但是圣經(jīng)中所講的道理也無非這樣，這就是生活的真諦。我了解我們?nèi)祟悾�我們總是或多或少在彼此之間制造麻煩。有時(shí)候甚至是為了最愚蠢的理由，但是我要告誡你，我們自身有能力避免自己制造的問題。因此，像對(duì)待自己兄弟那樣去愛你的鄰居吧，在你準(zhǔn)備侮辱他人，或采取其他惡行時(shí)，先捫心自問："我會(huì)這樣對(duì)待自家兄弟的嗎？"

    3.過真實(shí)的生活

    人類能夠犯的最大錯(cuò)誤就是為自己的生活加上五花八門的限制，當(dāng)然啦，沒有規(guī)矩不成方圓，而且限制可以使你避免犯錯(cuò)。我現(xiàn)在所要講的是那些錯(cuò)誤的限制，正是它們阻撓了我們潛能的發(fā)揮。打個(gè)比方，人們有時(shí)說"我再也無法減肥了，我已經(jīng)胖得不可收拾。"或者"我不可能得到那份工作，我肯定不能勝任。"這些錯(cuò)誤的限制毀掉了我們的生活，是社會(huì)環(huán)境強(qiáng)加于我們的，而最終將使我們軟弱、無能。這些錯(cuò)誤的限制也將削弱男人們和女人們的意志，無法順利地?fù)碛斜疽褎?chuàng)造好的生活。因此，不要對(duì)自己妄加約束，"不可能"并不是一個(gè)事實(shí)，而僅僅是一種觀點(diǎn)。

    4.選擇為自己搭建的"梯子"找靠山

    "人生事，十常有八九不如意",有些時(shí)候我們太依賴于某人或某事，所以我的建議是，明智地為自己搭建的"梯子"找靠山。現(xiàn)今社會(huì)，我們不能過于相信自己的經(jīng)濟(jì)實(shí)力，因?yàn)樵谀闩�清這一點(diǎn)之前，這座"靠山"就將倒塌了。如果我們依賴于社會(huì)人脈關(guān)系，猜猜會(huì)如何？這座"靠山"遲早也會(huì)倒掉。要么是你愛的女孩離你而去，要么就是你們兩個(gè)相親相愛一生，直至其中一人辭世。如果你不信奉上帝，我就無話可說了，但是終將有一物永遠(yuǎn)屹立，那就是上帝。所以，如果我是你，我將永遠(yuǎn)追隨上帝。

    5.留給自己充足享受的時(shí)間

    如果這篇文章對(duì)你的生活有所裨益，我希望是這一條。生活是艱難的，我們無所適從……我更想說，生活吧，就像是你已經(jīng)死去，熱愛吧，就像這世上已空空如也。想知道原因嗎？明天你可能穿過街道時(shí)被卡車撞死。所以生活時(shí)就去享受哪怕是最微小的事情，生活的魅力正是蘊(yùn)含于細(xì)微之處。明天早晨享受你杯中的咖啡，就像那是你生命中最后一杯。深情擁抱你的丈夫或妻子，就像那是最后一次擁抱了……生命對(duì)我們來說是如此短暫而無力揮霍。所以，不要為了過更好的生活而抱怨，而應(yīng)該開始過你已經(jīng)擁有的生活。