人生充滿了爭(zhēng)吵，由于我們的修養(yǎng)不夠，爭(zhēng)吵很容易發(fā)展成沖突。如何讓爭(zhēng)吵獲得有益的結(jié)果呢？今天特別為大家隆重奉獻(xiàn)25種讓世界更和諧的吵架方法。

    Please try to understand my point of view.

    請(qǐng)理解我的觀點(diǎn)。

    Wait, can I take that back?

    等一下，我能收回我說(shuō)的話嗎？

    You don't have to solve this - it helps me just to talk to you.

    我不用幫我解決這個(gè)問(wèn)題。和你聊一下就對(duì)我有幫助。

    This is important to me. Please listen.

    這對(duì)我很重要。請(qǐng)仔細(xì)聽。

    I overreacted.

    我反應(yīng)過(guò)激了。

    I see you're in a tough position.

    我知道你的處境艱難。

    I can see my part in this.

    這個(gè)問(wèn)題，我有錯(cuò)。

    I hadn't thought of it that way before.

    我以前沒(méi)有這樣想。

    I could be wrong.

    我可能是錯(cuò)的。

    Let's agree to disagree on that.

    讓我們接受我們的不同觀點(diǎn)。

    This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.

    這不只是你的問(wèn)題。這是我們的問(wèn)題。

    I'm feeling unappreciated.

    我感覺(jué)沒(méi)有收到重視。

    We're getting off the subject.

    I know I need to listen more.

    我知道，我應(yīng)該多傾聽。

    You've convinced me.

    Let's take a break for a few minutes.

    讓我們停一會(huì)。

    [If you can remember to do this, it's extremely effective-especially if you're having a big fight. After a break, it's almost impossible to go back to yelling.]

    Please keep talking to me.

    I realize it's not your fault.

    我意識(shí)到這不是你的錯(cuò)。

    That came out all wrong.

    我表達(dá)錯(cuò)了。

    I see how I contributed to the problem.

    我明白我引起了這個(gè)問(wèn)題。

    What are we really fighting about?

    How can I make things better?

    我怎樣才能把事情變得更好呢？

    We can solve this if we work together.

    如果我們攜手合作，我們就可以解決這個(gè)問(wèn)題。

    I'm sorry.

    對(duì)不起。

    I love you.

    我愛你。

    最后兩句是最簡(jiǎn)單、最有力量的！