People relate in many ways and the different types of humans let each relationship to be unique. So nobody can give any formula of how to put a stop and shuffle cards again.
A relationship needs work and time in order to succeed and sometimes love is not enough for both people, so it requires drastic action taking, which is not a simple and quick decision if you have passed a reasonable time with the other person. Sharing memories, moments and anecdotes makes it a complicated situation to face.
All of the time it is expected to end in good terms but this, unfortunately, is not always possible. Cheating, disappointment and lack of respect are just three of the reasons why a couple may start a war when breaking up. It is essential to remind yourself of the best moments of the relationship when that decision is needed and do not ever forget that talking badly about the person who shared your life with translates in gossiping against yourself.
What is meant to last has no way of avoiding its destiny and a bad or aggressive relationship is not healthy at all, so the decision, though a rough one, is required at the right time. Spending more and more time together will not assure you the success of the relationship, and worse, it may contribute to end up fighting and building unnecessary confrontations.
For your own sake, if your relationship is over, end it in the best way you can and enjoy life, there is only one, and considerably short.
人類可以以多種方式往來,不同的人群將他們彼此間的關心劃分的很清楚。因此,沒人能對于怎樣結束和再一次洗牌給出一個任何明確的關系式。
建立一段關系需要進行和時間,有時光有愛情對于兩個人來說是不夠的,因此它需要去采取特有的行為,這不是一件簡單和盲目間下的決定。(如果之前你已經與那個人經歷了一段適應的時間)享受過去,片刻和樂趣使得它的表面形成了極為復雜的形式。
從好的方面來說,都期望它能有個完美的結局,但是很不幸,它并非如你所愿。欺騙,失望和不尊重這僅僅就成為了夫妻之間爆發戰役,最終走上終結的三要素。當你必須需下決定時,不要總是想著那個與你相伴人的不好,對于你他只是個愛挑撥是非的人而已,還是讓自己回想你們之間那些美好時光,這很必要。
最終這就意味著我們無法逃避命運,一段糟糕的戰爭的關系是不利于你們相處的,因此決定(即使沒那么明確)也會在適當的時機出現的。兩人在一起時間的多少并不意味你倆關系就有多好,更糟糕的是,它會為戰爭做引線,建立不必要的對抗。
為自己著想,如果你們的關系即將結束,那就讓它完美的結束,享受生活,這也是最最精辟的一句話。