eduction is as much an art as a science, but many guys seem to forget the science part. In this article, I'll give you the skinny on which of 5 body parts (yours AND hers) can tote-up major points on the Seduce-Her Scoreboard! Let's go!
Instructions
Difficulty:Easy
Things You’ll Need:
Step1 NOSE:
A woman's nose tells her a ton about you. Do you smell good? Have you taken a bath since Clinton was Prez? Some studies say a woman's sense of smell is in some ways more developed than a man's, so step one here is "Work Her Nose" -- always stay a well showered, well deodorant'ed, clean smelling man. A good quality cologne will help, but put it on to impress -- not to mug her with a smell that arrives 10 minutes before you!
Step2 MOUTH:
I'm amazed at the guys who refuse to smile. Either they leer at a woman like a deranged rabbit, or they're lip-wrapping their teeth like those pearly whites are purple and green. A natural and warm SMILE will make a huge first impression, so use it rather than lose it (and her). And remember they don't call them pearly whites for nuttin' -- get your teeth cleaned by a dentist twice a year, and brush those jewels after every meal. They may well spell the difference between you smiling or not smiling on your next date!
Step3 EARS:
I've heard it said for years, from both sexes, that a man's voice can often be the thing that sets a woman's seduction meter working overtime. Pull your voice up from your solar plexus, speak clearly and deeply (when you can feel you own rib cage sort of vibrate when you talk, you're there!), and use your voices volume to it's best effect. Learn to whisper clearly, and learn to speak so everyone knows THIS dude has a MAN'S voice!
Step4 SKELETON:
A-ten-hun! You don't have to be in the Army or Marines to have good posture, but it helps. Look at your favorite movie stars and athletes, do you see them slouching, shoulders rounded, back curved? Nope; they're standing up straight and proud. Your body is your instrument, Dude, make sure everyone can see you keep your polished, proud, and standing tall.
Step5 EYES:
Eye contact is really the ultimate secret sauce in this list. Learn how to make smoldering eye contact with a woman and the pathway to Seduction Success is Secure! Don't just LOOK at the lady -- linger over her eyes with yours. Break eye contact slooooooooowly, as if your eyes just slowed down to a snail's pace. But....don't STARE; look at her eyes deeply, taking time to really see each eye, their color, texture, and depth. It's a winning move -- and most dudes have lame game here.
把妹是藝術也是科學,但很多男人似乎把科學這一部分忘得干干凈凈。在本文中,我將告訴你五個身體部位(你的和她的)的絕招,能顯著增加你的把妹指數。這就開始吧!
具體方法
難易度:容易
所需東西:
第一步
鼻子:女人的鼻子能告訴她關于你的很多信息。你好不好聞?你還是在克林頓任總統期間洗的澡吧?一些研究表明,女人的嗅覺在某些方面要比男人靈敏。因此,第一步就是要“專攻她的鼻子”——要一直做個勤洗澡、抹香水、保持清爽體味的男人。優質的古龍水很好用,但要用量適當,營造好感即可——不要十米開外就能把她熏死!
第二步
嘴巴:我很詫異有些男人不愿微笑。要么他們視女人為驚慌的兔子,要么他們用嘴唇緊緊裹住牙齒,就仿佛它們并非雪白如珍珠,而是又青又紫的。一個自然而溫暖的笑容能產生很深刻的初次印象,所以,要善于使用微笑,而不要錯過微笑(和她)。還要記住,她們不把板栗稱為珍珠——請每年去牙醫那兒清潔兩次牙齒,并請每頓飯后刷洗你的玉牙珠齒。在你下次約會時,它們會讓你的微笑與不笑產生強烈反差。
第三步
耳朵:數年以來我就從男人和女人那里得知,男人的聲音往往能夠讓把妹能力超常發揮。從你的腹腔神經叢開始,將嗓音拉起來,說話清楚且深厚(當你在說話時能夠感到自己的胸腔產生出某種震動,那就做得到位了),調整說話音量已達到最佳效果。 學著清晰地低語,學著說話,這樣所有人都知道這家伙擁有一副男人的嗓音!
第四步
骨架:你雖然沒必要呆在陸軍或海軍去練好姿勢,但這卻很有用。看看你所喜愛的電影明星和運動員們,你可曾見過他們蔫兒不啦嘰、耷拉著雙肩、弓著背的樣子?沒有;他們站得倍兒直,還掛著自豪。哥們兒,你的身子就是你的工具,要確保所有人都看到你一直保持優雅、自豪和筆挺的樣子。
第五步
眼睛:眼神接觸確是本文最后一個秘密為器。學會如何和女人產生出彼此放電的眼神接觸,那么把妹就成功在望了!不要只是呆看著女人——要用你的眼睛在她的眼睛上面游移。要慢慢慢慢慢慢慢慢地移開目光接觸,就好象你的眼睛剛剛減速為蝸牛的步伐。但……不要死盯;要深深地看著她,要花時間真正去觀賞每只眼睛,它們的顏色、質地和深度。此乃獲勝策略——而大多數男人對此卻差強人意。