If i were to ask Forrest Gump what is Sexy? He would probably say "sexy is as sexy does". What does someone who is sexy do? Are they always aware that they are doing it and is there a measure of sexiness?

    When you google who are the worlds sexiest men and women you almost know who are going to pop up. Clooney, Beyonce, Brad Pitt, Angelina, Colin Farrell, Orlando Bloom, Josh Holloway and so the list goes on. Yes they truly are The Beautiful People but their sexiness as portrayed to the world is manufactured and presumptive. I would argue that perfect looks don't automatically equal sexiness. Often sexiness is worn unknowingly by the truly sexy. It might be a look they give you. It might be a confident walk. It might be the way they smile. It might be a sexy mind. In my life i have often found the unassuming prove to be truly sexy.

    We have all walked rooms with our eyes and during an evening had interactions either face to face or just a look. You know the scenario. If someone is attracted to you they will supposedly hold your gaze just a few seconds longer than is socially the norm. You will watch and observe not because you are necessarily looking to hook up but because its fun to watch the dance even if you don't want to take a twirl. You will see the players who moves are practiced and almost jaded in their application. You will see the lacking in confidence, eyes darting, leg tapping pent up with should i shouldn't i indecision. Then you will see the comfortable in their own skin men and women. Yes they are looking for a connection if single but hell if they don't get a fix, what will be will be. They are not out to score points with their com padres but if they happen to engage in good conversation and fun they have had a good evening.

    So what is sexy? I believe that those who think they are sexy are way beyond the mark trading only in good looks and not a lot else. It is the comfortable in their own skin brigade who truly exude an understated sexiness which catches you unawares and goes beyond the superficial.

    如果你去問Forrest Gump什么是性感？他也許會說：“性感本身就是性感”。性感的人們是怎么做的？他們總是帶者這種意識去做事嗎？還有，存在衡量性感的標準嗎？

    當你搜索一下誰是世界上性感的男男女女們，你幾乎知道那些的名字會出現，Clooney、  Beyonce、 Brad Pitt、 Angelina、Colin Farrell、Orlando Bloom和 Josh Holloway ，名單還可以繼續列下去。不錯，他們當然是瀟灑漂亮，可他們所展現世人面前的性感，那是按照既定的標準，經過包裝制作的。我個人認為完美的五官并不是自動和性感劃上等號。那些所謂的性感相較于真實的性感黯然失色，也許是他們給你的一個眼神，也許是他們自信的步伐，也許是他們身上洋溢著那種性感的精神。在我的生活里，經常發現那種真實、不矯柔做作那才是真正的性感。

    （我們滿屋子東轉轉西瞧瞧，然后整下午，面對面或者相互瞅上兩眼，一句話，無事可干。看電視劇，如果哪個人吸引你的目光，假定時間超過正常社交幾秒，那不是因為你必須得看看他或她怎樣上鉤的，而是看他們的表演非常有趣，即使你不想涉及其中。你會看到演員隨著劇情精彩的表演：疲憊的找工作，缺乏信心，眼睛亂瞟，腿微顫，念叨我不會優柔寡斷。接下來你會看到他們和顏悅色，是的，他們在尋找對象，如果是只有一個人，沒有找到別人，那就是地獄。他們就會展現他們本來的面目。他們不會贏得好感如果帶著牧師，如果碰巧他們談話興致很好，他們會過一個愉快的夜晚。這一段我拿不準，請高手指教！）

    那么什么是性感？我認為那些真正性感的人們是那些遠離市場化炒作而不是僅僅臉蛋漂亮而一無是處的家伙，他們心平氣和，真正理解了性感的內涵，真正的性感是無意中吸引你，而又超越了表面的皮囊。