The advise I'm about to give is both concise and easy to follow. Some of you may find this advise unorthodox, and that is your opinion. First hand, I will admit, that this should only work for teenagers.
To start things off, it is very simple;Men are just as diverse as women.
Don't believe all that hype about how they don't have a time of the month either. If you study a man or woman carefully enough, there is always a time in which they are going to cranky during the month. Let this person have his or her space for that week before even considering telling the person you like him or her.
If your seriously interested in a person, then you should wait until a time that isn't during school or work to tell them so. I say this because it shows an actual interest in the person that isn't to the point of stocking. Please, try not to stalk people. It's not helpful and you can end up with a restraining order.
Don't forget one thing either; INTERESTS! If you like someone because he or she is "cute", then it's probably not worth it to ask a person out biased on this assumption.
My personal favorite thing to do before I met the love of my life, was to simply start a convesation with this person and get to know the person for anywhere from a few days to a few weeks before even considering asking the person out on a "real" date.
This brings me to another good point. You should probably at least try to become friends with the person before trying to become his or her girlfriend or boyfriend. Most of the time, friends all go out and do things together. This should give you an idea of the people your crush hangs out with and all of your similar interests.
Whatever you do, please don't fake being interested in the same things. It gets annoying and people do like a few things to be the same but not every little thing. I can almost guarantee there's at least one interest you share and that's all you need.
If the person doesn't want to take the time to be your friend then there's a good chance he or she wouldn't want to be your girlfriend/boyfriend either.
Well, after you've hung out with this person a while, just ask him or her out. If you two have connected, then it should be easy. If not, you've made a wonderful new friend whom can help you find that someone.
我將要給出的建議是極簡單的又容易學的。你們中的一些人將會找到這個建議的不合理性,這是你的觀點,首先,我承認,這僅對十幾歲的青年人有用。
開始出發時很簡單,對女人來說,男人僅僅像一個司機。
不要相信那些騙局:這個月的任何一天他們都沒有時間。如果你足夠小心地研究一個男人或一個女人,在一個月中他們總會有一個時間去任性。在考慮告訴你喜歡的那個她(他)之前在那個星期里給他(她)們空間。
如果你對一個人真誠的感興趣,你可以等,直到不再學校或者工作的時候告訴他(她)們。我說這些是因為它表明是真實地對一個人感興趣而不是對長筒襪喜歡所達到那種程度,請不要潛隨他(她),這沒有用,并且你可能以抑制令而告終你的感情。
也不要忘記一樣東西,興趣!如果你喜歡一個人是由于他(她)可愛,那么在這個假想中可能不值得你去問一個人是否愛你了。
在我遇到我生命中的愛之前我會朝著我個人喜好的東西去做,與一個人的開始是很簡單的。在考慮問一個人是否愛自己的真正的日子之前,從幾天到幾個星期,去了解一個人的一切。
這帶出我的另一個好的想法。在你試著成為他的女朋友或者男朋友之前,你們至少可以試著成為朋友,大多數的時間里,朋友可以一起的出門和一起做事情,這應該可以給你一些建議:你可以明示迷戀對象和所有你們相似的興趣。
你做的一切請不要裝著對相同的事物感興趣,這是非常惱人的,并且喜歡相同的東西并不是幾乎沒有,我可以擔保,至少有一樣你所需要的你們可以共同分享。
如果他(她)不想花費時間在你的朋友上,那么這是個很好的機會說明他也不想成為你的女朋友或者男朋友。
好,在你已經明示給那個人以后,只是問了他(她)。如果你們倆已經有火花,這就容易了。如果沒有,你已經有了個不錯的姓朋友了,她可以幫助你找到那個人。